Married at First Sight: Themba on his "stunning" wife Nelisa

Married at First Sight South Africa has been one of the most talked-about shows in the country. For 12 weeks straight, it’s been trending on social media, and viewers can’t seem to get enough of the drama.

Next week’s recommitment ceremony will air on Sunday, 28 September at 5:30PM on Mzansi Magic, and streaming on Showmax. The jam-packed reality series follows four couples navigating married life in real time: Palesa Mphaki and Tshepo Miya, Makoto Phumodi and Nkuleleko Mahlangu, Themba Khosa and Nelisa Ntabeni, and Portia Baloyi and Bongani Luvalo.

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In the latest episode, we saw Themba and Nelisa’s marriage put to the ultimate test. Emotions ran high and we are not sure what the future has in store for them.

We caught up with the man of the moment, Themba, who spilled the tea on his relationship with Nelisa, life in the spotlight and what viewers can look forward to seeing at the reunion, which will air on Sunday, 5 October 2025 at 5:00PM.

Why did you join the show?

I was genuinely ready to settle down. I've been through enough in life to know what I want, and I thought this could be a real way to find someone who matches me. I know it sounds wild to marry a stranger, but I came in with an open heart.

How did you prepare for this experiment?

I took time to reflect on who I am and what I bring into a relationship. I also came to be honest with myself.

How has watching yourself been on TV?

Yoh, it's been a lot. There were times I cringed, but also moments where I was proud of how I handled things. It’s humbling, hey.

How are you preparing for the reunion?

I'm taking time to reflect and process everything. I want to come into that space calm, respectful and ready to own my part. It’s not about defending myself, it’s about telling my truth and hearing others out too.

What did you think when you first saw Nelisa?

She looked stunning. That first moment is something I’ll never forget. You’ve got all these nerves and then boom, there she is walking down the aisle. I thought she looked really beautiful.

Why should people keep watching?

Because the story’s not over. There’s still so much that happens, real challenges, real emotions. People will see how things shift and grow. And trust me, the reunion is going to be something else.

Is there anything you want to clarify at the reunion?

Definitely. I think some things didn’t come across the way they actually happened. There were moments that were more complex than what people saw. So I’d like the chance to clear that up and be heard properly.

How is the relationship between your wife and kids? 

My kids and wife love each other, even though they haven’t spent a lot of time together. I can see a happy family in the future.