Softie is on Showmax
Stephen Aspeling13 July 2023

7 documentaries about the secret lives of people you'll probably never meet

Documentaries open people's hearts and minds. This is why they're so important in shaping our attitudes and creating awareness about issues affecting us as individuals or as a collective. While they range from fly-on-the-wall depictions of reality to celebrity profiles or fictionalised recreations, these films attempt to encapsulate a message or shed light on what's going on around us.  

Whoever you are, these typically real stories capture the human experience or the natural world in a way that matters. Living through the lives of people we may never meet broadens our knowledge and our understanding of what it means to be alive on this lonely planet. Here are 7 documentaries waiting to immerse you in the secret lives of some of the most interesting people you'll probably never meet. 

Stolen Daughters: Kidnapped by Boko Haram

Stolen Daughters is on Showmax

Several years ago, a shocking news story emerged from Nigeria that captured the world's attention. Almost 300 schoolgirls were kidnapped from Chibok by militant terrorist group Boko Haram, which means “Western education is forbidden”. The incident led to campaigns such as #BringBackOurGirls, prompting many global citizens to get behind attempts to rescue the girls from captivity. Stolen Daughters: Kidnapped by Boko Haram tracks the girls, many of whom were released after the group reached a deal with the government, as they return to their lives and communities. 

As you'd expect, this documentary chronicles the harrowing and traumatic stories that still haunt them today. Whether forced to convert to Islam, marry Boko Haram members or witness the murder of loved ones - for many, the list of atrocities include rape and torture. This powerful, moving and vivid documentary speaks to restorative justice, the resilience of the human spirit and humanity’s will to survive the darkest days of our lives. 

Jane Fonda in Five Acts

Jane Fonda in Five Acts on Showmax

While Marilyn Monroe’s journey was tragically cut short, it’s curious to see how the Hollywood star’s life could have turned out through the biopic documentary, Jane Fonda in Five Acts. While the film stars are a few years apart in age, they both experienced the embers of Old Hollywood in their film careers, sculpted into sex symbols and defined by the men around them. 

Jane Fonda in Five Acts explores the life and career of the iconic actress and activist. Guided by Fonda herself in a series of intimate interviews, this documentary chronicles her difficult childhood, family dysfunction, overnight success, her bold political activism and return to Hollywood in the 80s. Through archive footage, film clips and photographs, this biopic crafts a rich and retrospective tapestry, given further depth from both insight and hindsight. 

Love Crimes of Kabul

Love Crimes of Kabul on Showmax

Afghanistan has been an arid battlefield over the last few decades, but it seems personal freedom remains a distant mirage. This is abundantly clear in the heartbreaking documentary Love Crimes of Kabul, which explores the stories of women awaiting trial at a prison for moral crimes. 

Imprisoned because of premarital relations, becoming overly intimate before marriage or for trying to flee their home rather than face strict curfews, there seem to be any number of reasons women can be dishonoured and incarcerated. Exploring a few of these intimate stories, Love Crimes of Kabul interviews and journeys with these captives and their families, giving a fascinating window into another culture as these young women discover the limitations of the law and the very real implications of their dalliances within such an authoritarian and conservative society. 

Softie

Election campaigns are won with hard cash and T-shirts in Kenya, considered to be one of the most corrupt nations in the world, a democracy that is still divided along tribal lines. Set against the backdrop of a complex history, this is Boniface Mwangi’s story, a CNN photographer who decided to stand up against the brutality of pre-election violence, rampant injustice and government apathy. 

This unpredictable documentary captures the fire of a true patriot and family man who wants a better future for his children. From the overarching corruption of the system to the popularity contest that is elections, Mwangi appeals to the Kenyan government and people to elect on principle rather than pay days. A character portrait of a charming and fearless man, this is a brave, eye-opening and inspiring documentary account of altruism and speaking truth to power. 

The Edge of Existence

The global population recently surpassed 8 billion. There have never been so many people on Earth and this is having a direct bearing on our natural world. While rapid population growth is a multifaceted challenge to space and resources, the human and wildlife conflict has now reached crisis levels along the Western Corridor of the Serengeti in Africa. Taken from the perspective of a conservation ranger, this beautifully photographed documentary unpacks the complexities of this violent stand-off as rural communities try to survive off the land. 

Whether protecting elephants from frustrated human attacks or deterring wildlife from causing chaos in communal areas, it seems the situation is fraught with emotion, hardship and challenges. The Edge of Existence gets an on-the-ground eye-witness view of the situation as clarity and insights from poachers, rangers and special units add nuance.     

Fake Famous 

We’re living in a digital age where we’ve never been so connected and alone. This heartbreaking irony speaks to the infiltration of social media and the rise of a class known as influencers. While not famous in the traditional sense of the word, influencers have amassed huge followings, attracting lucrative sponsorship deals from brands in exchange for product placement views and likes.  

Fake Famous tracks a social media experiment, where journalist and filmmaker Nick Bilton attempts to get three would-be influencers famous. From casting his trio to finding the boundaries of the experiment, Fake Famous takes many twists and turns as the documentary explores the concept of social media fame and unpacks some of the behind-the-scenes circus illusion of what it takes to be fake famous.  

Wig

Adorning yourself in a glitzy costume, makeup and wig doesn’t suddenly make you a drag queen. It’s a much bigger commitment, an art form, an identity turned lifestyle that takes time to adopt - even longer to perfect. Set in New York, Wig is a documentary that immerses itself in the world of drag queens. A colourful and vivid film composed of all that sparkles, from personalities to outfits, Wig weaves together a kaleidoscope of commentary, photographs and video footage. 

While it features Ru Paul, the story is narrated by a host of drag queens from full-fledged representatives to founders of Wigstock. Rewinding to the 80s and peeling away the layers of what it takes to be a drag queen and queer, Wig is a showcase of the personalities and performances that shape the drag identity and community. 

More international documentaries to stream online »

Share:

More like this

Unspoken War on Showmax

IdeaCandy docuseries Unspoken War looks to start a national conversation

Unspoken War lands on Showmax in full on 12 November 2025, and on M-Net weekly on Wednesdays from 12 November. Produced by iEmmy nominees IdeaCandy.

OriginalMade in South Africa
Young, Gifted and Queer on Showmax

Young, Gifted & Queer (2025)

This bold exploration of the lives of Black queer artists shaping Mzansi's cultural landscape is told through intimate and personal reflections.

Made in South Africa
Slay Queens on Showmax

Must-watch trailer: Slay Queens doccie coming to Showmax

Watch the explosive trailer for Slay Queens, a Showmax Original docuseries about women chasing the soft life. Streaming from 31 October, new episodes every Friday.

OriginalMade in South Africa
Seen and Heard documentary on Showmax

Seen & Heard: The History of Black Television

Take a journey through TV history, exploring Black representation, from early on-screen appearances to modern creators, revolutionising the industry.

First
Catch all five episodes of the first season of Giants on Showmax now!

Giants S1

A compelling docuseries that takes you deep inside the lives of players from one of South Africa's most iconic football clubs, Orlando Pirates.

Made in South Africa
Catch all five episodes of Giants on Showmax now!

Uncover the soul of South African football with the boxset of Giants

You can now binge-watch all five episodes of Giants, which takes an unprecedented look behind the scenes of a legendary football club: Orlando Pirates

Made in South Africa
Flight 149: Hostage of War is on Showmax

Flight 149: Hostage of War (2025)

When Flight 149 landed in Kuwait, its passengers became pawns in Saddam's invasion, held as human shields. Decades later, survivors seek justice and the truth.

First
Tracking Thabo Bester on Showmax

Tracking Thabo Bester

A documentary about the convicted murderer and rapist who faked his own death. All episodes are on Showmax.

OriginalMade in South Africa

Obama: In Pursuit of a More Perfect Union

The biggest corporate scandal in Mzansi's history! Steinheist

Latest Stories

Bafana Bafana live on Showmax Premier League

Bafana Bafana composed for Durban showdown against Zimbabwe

Arsenal live on Showmax Premier League

Arsenal and Liverpool early front-runners ahead of Premier League international break

Married at First Sight S2 is on Showmax

Married at First Sight's Portia Baloyi on the reunion and her ex

Slay Queens on Showmax

Must-watch trailer: Slay Queens doccie coming to Showmax

Catch the fiery battle between Chelsea and Liverpool live on Showmax Premier League

The Premier League canvas: a Saturday masterpiece painted in blue and red

Married at First Sight S2 is on Showmax

Relebogile Mabotja to host the two-hour Married at First Sight reunion special

Chasing the Sun 2 on Showmax

South Africa in third place at International Emmys, with four MultiChoice nominations

A still from Finding Optel showing Claire looking through binoculars

What to watch on Showmax in October 2025

Catch Newcastle v Arsenal live on Showmax Premier League on Sunday, 28 September at 17:30

The clash of the new number 9s: Gyökeres vs Woltemade

Married at First Sight S2 is on Showmax

Married at First Sight: Themba on his "stunning" wife Nelisa

Thelma on Showmax

June Squibb wins Best Actress award at age 95 for Thelma

Catch the blockbuster Premier League weekend live on Showmax Premier League.

Red vs Blue: Showmax Premier League serves up a blockbuster weekend

Catch all the action from the Premier League live on Showmax PL.

Blockbuster Premier League weekend: Red vs Blue

Gerard Butler as 'Big Nick' O'Brien and O’Shea Jackson Jr. as Donnie Wilson in Den of Thieves 2: Panthera. Photo Credit: Rico Torres.

Gerard Butler and O’Shea Jackson Jr chat about Den of Thieves 2: Pantera

Lunathi Mampofu in Levels Season 1 on Mzansi Magic

Where to see the cast of Levels on Showmax

Catch the London derby between Tottenham Hotspur and West Ham live on Showmax Premier League.

From doubt to dynamo: Micky van de Ven's rise at Tottenham

Catch the MTN8 final between Orlando Pirates and Stellenbosch, live on Showmax Premier League.

Mhlongo's bold prediction: Pirates to clinch MTN8 Title for a fourth year running

Catch the Manchester Derby live on Showmax Premier League.

Glory awaits: From MTN8 Kings to Manchester's Crown, football's biggest stage is on Showmax

The Brutalist on Showmax

Art, money and power: a blueprint for The Brutalist

Catch all five episodes of Giants on Showmax now!

Uncover the soul of South African football with the boxset of Giants

Vaal Riviera is on Showmax

Rianza Snyman on Vaal Riviera and being a stay-at-home mom

Catch all the action from the Premier League live on Showmax PL.

The best Premier League signings of 2025's summer window

Finding Optel on Showmax

SA siblings’ debut film chosen for BFI London Film Festival

Youngins S3 on Showmax

Simo Magwaza on his challenging role as De Klerk in Youngins