The host of Ubuthe Uzobuya on the show's emotional impact

Ubuthe Uzobuya is an intervention series dedicated to supporting spouses who have been unexpectedly abandoned in their marital homes without any explanation. Now in its second week, the show brings to light the struggles of individuals who must navigate difficult questions from children, family members, and friends regarding their partners’ sudden departures.

This Showmax Original focuses on tracking down the missing spouses in hopes of providing clarity to those left behind. The stories feature both men and women who are seeking answers and simply want to ask, “What happened? Ubuthe uzobuya?”

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To learn more about the show, we sat down with Tshepo Maseko, the host, who had plenty to say about the series and its impactful stories.

How did you prepare for your role as the host of Ubuthe Uzobuya?

My approach was to be as authentic as possible. I chose to be myself, striving to be genuine and direct in my interactions. Throughout the process, I always keep the dignity of the guests in mind.

What is the most important lesson you took away from your experiences during filming?

The most significant lesson from Ubuthe Uzobuya is that decisions will follow you throughout your life. Every choice matters, and starting off on the right foot is crucial.

Are there any recurring themes that emerge from the diverse stories shared on the show?

Almost all the stories reflect a common theme, or the absence of one. People often fail to clarify their intentions, leading to hurt and pain. Many individuals don’t start their relationships on the right foot and can end up using others. Ultimately, it highlights a truth about human nature: we can be quite selfish at times.

How does hosting this series differ from your previous acting experiences?

Thankfully, I don’t have to act; everything is real. This makes it more challenging, as it’s always unpredictable. However, it’s also raw and genuine, which I love. I feel connected to the show as both the host and an audience member.

Were there any couples who successfully reconciled during the course of the show?

I can’t say for certain whether couples will remain permanently reconciled, as the presence of cameras can influence people's behaviour. However, it’s clear that people don’t just leave for no reason; there are often deeper issues at play. For many men who left, their primary plea was for respect, while for many women, it was a plea against abuse. I truly hope that all of them can achieve lasting reconciliation, especially since children bear the brunt of the consequences.

Did any participants decide to leave their new families in order to return to those they had previously left behind?

Yes, some of them do return. Not everyone leaves or stays purely because of love; people make choices about whether to stick it out or move on. Relationships are fundamentally about choices, choices we make every day.

How do you handle emotionally charged conversations with the guests on the show?

Ubuthe Uzobuya is profoundly emotional, and I’m grateful that it isn’t trashy. It feels genuine. It’s created with dignity, which I truly appreciate. I especially love that the participants must be married; this adds an important layer to the show. It serves as a form of therapy and is incredibly necessary. The nation needs this kind of dialogue.

In your personal life, have you encountered any similar situations?

I know a friend who is in a similar situation. In fact, after he watched the first episode, I suggested that we go and fetch his wife, who lives separately with their three children. However, he feels embarrassed about it. This friend is a fan of the show and, by the way, he is very affluent.

What compelling reasons would you offer viewers to tune in to this show?

Everyone must watch Ubuthe Uzobuya. It addresses real issues and breaks the ice on sensitive topics without compromising the dignity of the guests. In fact, these are the genuine sentiments from a real couple in the west of Johannesburg. The wife expressed her appreciation for how we approach all guests with respect. This show is a must-watch; it provides a valuable platform for addressing marital problems and finding solutions.

New episodes of Ubuthe Uzobuya land every Tuesday, only on Showmax.