Palesa Mphaki on being Married at First Sight, her husband and more

The second season of Married at First Sight South Africa has been trending on X every Sunday as one of the most talked-about shows in the country.

A spinoff from the Critics Choice-nominated franchise, the reality series follows a group of singles who agree to marry partners chosen for them by relationship experts. They meet for the first time on their wedding day, hoping to find lasting love with a complete stranger. 

Screened on Mzansi Magic at 6:30PM every Sunday, and also on Showmax, this season introduces a new group of experts and hopeful singles ready to take a leap of faith. The brave couples are Palesa Mphaki and Tshepo Miya, Makoto Phumodi and Nkuleleko Mahlangu, Themba Khosa and Nelisa Ntabeni, and Portia Baloyi and Bongani Luvalo, who are now navigating life as married couples.

In last night’s dramatic episode, we saw cracks starting to show in Palesa and Tshepo’s marriage. Palesa suspects that her new husband, who’s expressed admiration for polygamy, might be cheating on her. 

We recently caught up with Palesa to get the tea on joining the show, her relationship with Tshepo, and more.

What made you say yes to joining Married at First Sight South Africa?

I said yes to Married at First Sight South Africa for the experience, with the objective of discovering affection through an unorthodox approach.

How has it been watching yourself on screen?

Watching myself on screen has been a peculiar experience, yet I am grateful for the occasion to observe myself from a distinct perspective.

Are people starting to recognise you in public? What’s that experience been like?

Yes, people are beginning to take notice of me. I'm gradually becoming accustomed to the stares and whispers that surround me. It's quite amusing to observe. I appreciate those who are bold enough to approach and acknowledge me when I'm out and about. The recognition is gratifying, and I'm slowly becoming more comfortable with it.

When you first laid eyes on Tshepo at the altar, what was going through your mind?

When I first laid eyes on Tshepo, I was slightly shocked. I mean, I had said I wasn't into super skinny guys but I hadn't anticipated meeting a pretty chubby dude at the altar. But hey, I know that looks aren't everything, so I was still willing to give it a shot. 

What’s been the biggest challenge of being married to a complete stranger?

The most significant challenge when it comes to being married to a stranger is the aspect of discovering their darker side, as well as gaining insight into the reasons behind their continued single status. 

The polygamy conversation seemed to strike a nerve. What about it triggered that reaction?

The polygamy question truly took me aback. I couldn't understand why he would even bring up such a topic. 

What has being on the show taught you?

Being on the show taught me that not everyone is completely honest in their actions and movements. It was a real eye-opener.

And what has it taught you about love and relationships?

It has taught me the importance of setting healthy boundaries and not allowing others to take advantage of my good nature. I have learned to stand up for myself while still being respectful and considerate of others. Overall my time on the show has been a valuable learning experience that has helped me grow both personally and professionally.

From the episodes that have aired so far, whose journey have you enjoyed watching the most and why?

I am truly savouring and relishing the journey of Makoto and Nkululeko. There is something incredibly compelling about focusing on those who are frequently misunderstood or misjudged by society. Their stories and experiences add depth and richness to our understanding of the world, and I find great value in paying close attention to their paths. Especially because I know the show is not scripted. 

What’s your relationship like with the other cast members off-camera?

I have conversations with Makoto nearly every day, and I engage in frequent discussions with Nelisa. However, Portia's communication with me is dead.

Why do you think people should keep watching your journey on the show?

People should watch because the storyline is brimming with potential developments, and one can only anticipate the surprises that await those who remain vigilant and engaged. The road ahead is filled with intrigue and uncertainty.